You work hard in your sewing room to create your next quilt and you wonder if it is important. When you give this quilt to the new baby, or graduate, or bride, will they like it? Will they use it or use it to shreds? The best quilts get used to shreds. They are given to babies and become the most important prop for nap and travel time. They become tents and dinosaur landscape. They become dolly blankets and tea party tablecloths. They get used up, but what a live they live.
Consider the life cycle of the amazing, phenomenal quilt. It takes years to applique and quilt. It goes the to all the best shows and brings home ribbons and money. Eventually, it is sold to a collector and leaves home for good. There are tears shed and a sense of loss until the next quilt is begun. Yes, the world needs quilting but the important thing is that I need to quilt. I need quilting.
Are you a member if a quilt guild? Do you remember your first visit to one? My first impression was that there were similarities to a church service. There were announcements, a main speaker, community service appeals, and opportunities to socialize. But the part of the guild meeting that impressed me the most was the Show and Tell. People showed their quilts on the stage and were applauded. All of the quilts received applause, the ugly, the pretty, and the completely phenomenal. Where else in my life could I go for guaranteed applause? I was a mother of 2 young and challenging boys. I loved them very much but they made every day a bit of a battle. Every day I needed a game plan, a strategy, and fortitude to face whatever came into each day. Sure, cooking, laundry, and cleaning are important but they don’t stay done! I wanted something in my life to get done and stay that way. I learned I could squeeze in a bit of sewing if I left my machine and project on the table and ran a plastic table cloth over it. When the boys were in school I could manage to feed my creativity and once a month I could get away for an evening with other quilters at the local guild meeting. The other members became mentors, examples and dear friends. A bargain at any price.